The Problem With Healers
The call begins when we work in the illusion of the material world. There is a nagging voice in the back of our mind that whispers constantly that we are destined for something more compassionate and meaningful in our lives. The work we are doing becomes boring, inconsequential, and unimportant. We could be lawyers, construction workers, clerks, 9 to 5’ers. We want to find meaning in life and start reading books on spirituality or enlightenment. We read stories about ordinary people who “wake up” with amazing healing powers or those who had them all along and only had to quit their day job and take the leap of faith to be of service to the world. We go online and find a teacher who beckons to us to leave the material world and jump into the bright lights of the spiritual world, and screw up our courage and take the leap of faith our hearts have led us to take.
The we quit our day job, learned a new healing technique, and are ready to heal the world. We may or may not attract a lot of clients. The numbers are irrelevant. The important thing is that we are following our passion, and we are on the spiritual path. Whether we have success with our healing techniques is irrelevant because of the eastern philosophical truth that we must be detached from the fruits of our labor, the effort is its own reward. When we become attached to the outcome of our healing practice or how much we earn, suffering will surely follow. When we subject ourselves to constant suffering, the art of healing begins to lose its luster and that day job starts to wax in the light of nostalgia.
We join healing circles, prayer circles, the Association of the Galactic Light Workers Local No. 111-1. We spend our (now) free time sending healing energy to those who have never heard of us and definitely don’t want it. We meditate and emanate for the injured and starving of the world, the riots in Egypt, conflicts that never seem to cease around the globe. It never gets any better. Then we decide that we need more training or a different teacher to jump start our careers and to get the money flowing in, because the savings account is looking a little bare. So we take the last of our savings to attend the week long advanced student Grand Convention of Evolved Light Beings, certain that this will transform our lives into bliss and financial security. We become 12th degree masters of the shining sword of Isis knowing that this will guaranty our enlightment and omniscience. Our lives may improve; they may not. The problem is that there are some spiritual principles (teachings) that they don’t tell us when we take Spiritual Healing 101.
(1) DOUBT. Doubt is the great ego weapon that keeps us in suffering no matter what we do. We could be in our day job, a relationship, a beginning healer or a needy client. If the healer holds any doubt about their ability then they can forget about helping their clients. We need to do the best we can with reverence and respect. If they heal, great! If they don’t heal and accuse you of being a fake, great! It is all about having an experience. It has nothing to do with the client. If the client has doubt, that is beyond our control. There is nothing we can do about it. Depending on the level of our doubt, they can be healed or not. We could be the greatest healer ever born on the planet and we still would not be able to help someone with enough doubt. So get ready, we will not heal anyone that doesn’t want it or doesn’t believe in it.
(2) DESTINY. If it is our destiny to be a healer, we will be provided for. If it is not our destiny to be a healer, it doesn’t matter how hard we work, train, meditate, practice or want it, the universe will let us know we need to be elsewhere. It is hard to remember sometimes that it is the ego that tells us we need to be healers. It is the ego that tells us that our day job isn’t good enough. It may be that we have a strong urge to be a healer, we have psychic powers, or we talk to dead people. That is the ego talking. The only purpose I have ever found for us to be on this planet is to play the game of life and have fun doing it. We get further down the life path when we help other people without expectation of reward or recognition. We do it just because that is part of the plan. The world needs clerks, lawyers, nurses, construction workers, cab drivers, too. The world needs a lot more spiritual lawyers, politicians, judges, soldiers, and police, than it needs more spiritual healers.
(3) WE ARE NOT THE DOER. We do not heal anybody. What we do is hold space and time for our clients to heal themselves. That is why doubt is such a block to healing. If the client is lazy or is invested in being sick (even if they swear they want to heal), they will not heal. The fact that we need the fee more than we want to practice spiritual integrity makes us do the healing anyway and then we feel inept or unworthy when they don’t heal. If we know the client won’t heal because they don’t want to heal, and we do a healing anyway, suffering is sure to follow.
(4) DON’T GIVE A HEALING TO SOMEONE WHO HASN’T ASKED FOR IT. This is the biggest trap we fall into. We all feel for those less fortunate than us, but to take action and send a healing to someone that doesn’t know we are doing it or has asked for it activates the ego and causes great suffering. The first thing we forget that those who are suffering, including us, created all of the suffering of the world. This is their karma and there are consequences for those who interfere with the orderly operation of karma. If we interfere with the operation of karma, it has to go somewhere, and it goes to us. So the next time we want to go send healing to someone we don’t know and haven’t been asked to heal, get ready, because the karma that caused their suffering will come to our door. Are you ready for that? If we want to help those people, then we must heal ourselves and stop looking at the problem. We have to fill ourselves with love and allow grace to radiate out from our hearts to those that need it. That is far more effective than healing circles or meditation groups who send healing out into the world.
(5) COMMON SENSE OVER SPIRITUAL SENSE. The reality is there are a lot of healers competing for client dollars. Hopefully in the years to come we will see these healers pulling together in a cooperative way to provide services to those that need it. Until then, understand that very few people get rich in the spiritual world. That is the nature of the spiritual world, it detaches from the material world. So if you don’t have the resources, don’t quit your day job! If you are in a relationship, it is a fact that a lot of relationships end when one or both members start evolving. It does happen that both members of the relationship can evolve at the same rate and stay together. I hope that is so for you.
Enlightenment comes to those who call for it. It is our birthright. We do not need to quit our day jobs and join a monastery or cloister. We do not have to be psychic or see stuff other people don’t see. Most of that stuff is the ego anyway. The best way to live an enlightened life is to help those who ask, be compassionate, listen sincerely, speak kindly to others and smile. I am always surprised how many people help others and them by doing that.
James Robinson February 4, 2011
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You just found me on Twitter and I try to take a look at what every person who comes to me has to offer. As a massage therapist, the title of this article appealed to me and I am so glad I read it. You explained the ego struggle in healing very well, it is such a fine balance between education and faith, between intention and detachment.
I look at myself as a healer, that is my responsibility among the community in which I live. As in Ancient times, no matter if you were a healer, a warrior, a tailor or a cook, you went out among your community practicing your talents among your fellow citizens with the innate knowledge that as you took care of your community that it in return to care of you. I find myself at my greatest peace and prosperity when I remember to operate from this principle.
I look forward to reading more. Thanks.
Thank you for connecting with me on Twitter
I like your thinking a lot. I never thought of healing others without their consent in the way you mentioned, like taking on their karma. I do not judge what is happening in the world because I know there is a bigger reality that I cannot see. My focus has been on bringing more awareness so i can see beyond the physical world and realize my true nature. Along the way if i can help people that is good too, only if they ask
Look forward to our exchange…
Hi Shalini
My thought is everyone’s true nature is love and happiness. It is our mind that distracts us from that. Keep up the good work!
Thank you Michele!
Speaking as someone who did join a monastery, I say thanks for this bit of grounding advice. The most important thing I learned in my time as a monk was that life is life, and enlightenment lives everywhere.
Now, as a husband and father, I see this even more clearly.
I still wonder if my path is to heal others, and I appreciate your affirmation that if it is, I will be provided for.
Meanwhile I continue to watch, wait, love my family, blog my ideas, build my creative dream and work my day job.
Thanks for finding me on Twitter!
Wonderful post! Especially great points when it comes to healing people without their permission. Personally, I consider that an invasion of their spiritual space. The only way to know if they are open to your energy is if they ask for it. And when they ask, I give, every time and leave it up to them to manage that energy to heal themselves. I’m lucky enough to be in a situation where I don’t have to earn $s from my readings or healings, so I am free to do them at leisure or as barter, which is really my favorite.
Anyways – my ego is coming out now, so I’m going to stop here. Thank you for all the good reminders!
Good to “hear” from you, Peter. Congrats on bringing it out of the monastery to the rest of the world. Did you hear that the yogis are coming out of their caves in the Himalayas and rejoining the world?
Hello, I agree with what you have written. Interesting that I have been encouraged to take classes, seminars on healing because of my being a nurse. Encouraged so that I could do readings, heal, etc. I have declined for the very reasons you list here. As a registered nurse when someone needed a kind hand or word, it was very evident. Same if they were very private and respected that also. I gave it gladly with no thought of what was in it for me. As a human doing a kindness for another human. But in doing so always gleaned far more from the interchange than was even spoken. Didn’t make a big deal or an announcement. But was always grateful for the interchange whatever it might be. The best medicine I ever used was just simple kindness and respect. Not pills, potions or procedures. I never had any patient ask for their bank account information on their deathbed. They did always ask if there was someone there that loved them. Sometimes it was only me. Make sure those you love know that you do.
Also enjoyed all of the above comments.
Kathy
Thank you Kathy!
Big help, big help. And superlative news of cusore.
Life is short, and this article saved valaulbe time on this Earth.
So true Julissa!